How to fix a broken marriage alone in 21 days how to stop your divorce and rekindle an unhappy marriage in 3 weeks kindle edition by sam caesar author format kindle edition 40 out of 5 stars 7 ratings. 3 be honest with yourself and your spouse sometimes its easier to put your head in the sand and ignore the problems but your marriage wont get any better if you do this sit down and be honest with yourself about the state of the marriage then take your feelings to your spouse and have a deep heart to heart talk 4 have a talk. Lets face it knowing how to fix a broken marriage is confusing enough without having to actually do it but despite the overwhelming nature of this feat the truth of the matter is you absolutely can fix a broken marriage in fact there was a time when my wife and i were feeling completely helpless in our marriage and were both seriously considering getting a divorce. Life gets busy but a couple must grow together and align throughout the good and bad times make it a point to date again to talk more and to ensure that you are still a unified source no matter how busy life may get keep dating your partner dating is the key to save a broken marriage